curated connections
intentional magic
Events and introductions hand picked by relationship experts. We distill the research on compatibility. You show up with your authentic self. The magic will follow.
A few short (and FREE) questionaires, grounded in relationship research, get past what people say about themselves to what's actually true.
We review your answers and match you to a small, in-person gathering built around real compatibility, not geography.
Every event is guided by relationship experts — professionals who know how to read a room, ease the awkward moments, and help things go well. Want more support? One-on-one coaching is available anytime.
When there is a mutual connection at an event, we share contact information and encourage you to follow up in 48 hours. If not, we integrate feedback (yours and ours) and send the next invite.
The Quizzes
basic information, social preferences, availability
how you show up with others
how you bond and love
what you won't compromise on
We believe real sparks start with truly being seen. Our process integrates several methods to get to know you at a deeper level, allowing us to facilitate more meaningful connections. Each quiz is designed to capture a different aspect of your interpersonal style and preferences, including your core values. Take all four for the best matches!
Curated Social Events in Rochester
Hosted by relationship experts, our events are designed to minimize the awkward and maximize fun and meaningful connections. We review all client quiz answers and develop the event details and invite list to match. The more quizzes you answer, the more refined our matches can be.
Upcoming Events
Sun, Nov 08Jordan River CafeAt least 4 coffee dates in one morning! Speed dating, the alcheMeets way—more meaningful conversations, less pressure. Enjoy great coffee and sweet treats while getting to know potential matches, with thoughtful questions to help you move beyond the usual small talk.
Fri, Nov 13StrangebirdJoin us for great food and drinks at one of Rochester's best craft breweries. Ticket includes shared pizzas and pub snacks and NA drinks. Amazing selection of craft beers, cocktails, wine available for you to purchase. Jenny and Jess will be there as hosts to introduce people and help people connect
Sat, Nov 14Jordan River CafeJoin us for a peaceful Saturday morning of coffee, sweet treats, puzzling and good conversations. Jess and Jenny are there to host, introduce people and facilitate connections for those we think could be a good fit. Not a puzzle person? Join us for the coffee and conversation!