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curated connections

intentional magic

Events and introductions hand picked by relationship experts. We distill the research on compatibility. You show up with your authentic self. The magic will follow.

How It Works

All dating apps optimize for swiping. Most singles or friendship oriented social events are organized around only one activity. We optimize for what the research actually says predicts meaningful connections — then get you into a room with the right people, in person, fast.

A few short (and FREE) questionaires, grounded in relationship research, get past what people say about themselves to what's actually true.

We review your answers and match you to a small, in-person gathering built around real compatibility, not geography.

Every event is guided by relationship experts — professionals who know how to read a room, ease the awkward moments, and help things go well. Want more support? One-on-one coaching is available anytime.

When there is a mutual connection at an event, we share contact information and encourage you to follow up in 48 hours. If not, we integrate feedback (yours and ours) and send the next invite.

The Quizzes

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basic information, social preferences, availability

how you show up with others

how you bond and love

what you won't compromise on

We believe real sparks start with truly being seen. Our process integrates several methods to get to know you at a deeper level, allowing us to facilitate more meaningful connections. Each quiz is designed to capture a different aspect of your interpersonal style and preferences, including your core values. Take all four for the best matches!

Curated Social Events in Rochester

Hosted by relationship experts, our events are designed to minimize the awkward and maximize fun and meaningful connections. We review all client quiz answers and develop the event details and invite list to match. The more quizzes you answer, the more refined our matches can be.

Upcoming Events

  • Intimate Dinner or Brunch
    Intimate Dinner or Brunch
    in development for 9/27
    Rochester, NY
    A carefully curated dinner party or brunch. Perfect for someone who prefers smaller groups, longer conversations.
  • Speed Dating or Speed Friending with an alcheMeets Twist
    Speed Dating or Speed Friending with an alcheMeets Twist
    in development for 9/24
    Rochester, NY
    Curated for depth beyond your age group, everyone in the room is prescreened for compatibility. Brief 5-10 minute 'date' with at least 6 people, we help with the ice-breaker questions. A great option if you like a little more structure.
  • Weekend Walk or Hike
    Weekend Walk or Hike
    in development for weekend of 9/26
    Rochester, NY
    Short and easy (1-2 mile walk) designed for a low key way to meet new people while exploring a variety of Rochester's best spots

Connect with us

alcheMeets is for EVERYONE looking to meet people in real life for friendship or romance. Our Process and our Presence are designed to help you find your people.

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