Your ingredients Quiz

The following are a series of questions to help us get to know you. Please answer each to the best of your ability.

Birthday

Month

Day

Year

Gender

Male

Female

Non-Binary/Genderqueer/Agender

Prefer to self identify

Where do you live?

Rochester, NY Area

Buffalo, NY

Syracuse, NY

Other, please specify

Occupation

Do you have children?

Yes

No

Do you want (additional) kids?

Yes

No

Unsure

Types of Connections I'm Interested In

Romantic

Platonic/Friendships

Networking

I'm interested in Romantic Partners that are

Women

Men

Non-binary/Genderqueer/Agender

I'm interested in friendship with

Women

Men

Non-binary/Genderqueer/Agender

Do you make any lifestyle choices that you would consider an integral part of your identity? (eg vegetarian, zero proof, minimalist)

Do you identify with any of these religious affiliations?

Are you open to dating someone who may have different religious beliefs?

Yes

No

Do you self-identify as Neurodiverse?

Yes

No

Unsure

Do you smoke/vape?

Yes

No

Are you open to a partner who smokes/vapes?

Yes

No

Unsure

Are you open to social substance use?

Yes, Alcohol

Yes, Marijuana

No

What role does Physical Activity/Fitness play in your life?

Mainly Sedentary Life

Moderately Active

Highly Active

What is/are your Primary Love Languages?

Words of Affirmation: Feeling loved through compliments, verbal praise, and kind words

Quality Time: Feeling loved through undivided attention, meaningful conversations, and shared activities

Receiving Gifts: Feeling loved through thoughtful presents and physical tokens of care

Acts of Service: Feeling loved through helpful actions like doing chores or running errands

Physical Touch: Feeling loved through hugs, kisses, and other physical connection

How do you handle Conflict most often?

Collaborating: Working together to find a "win-win" solution that fully satisfies both parties' needs

Compromising: Finding a middle ground where both parties give up a little to reach a practical agreement

Accommodating: Giving in to the other person's needs or preferences to preserve the relationship or de-escalate tension

Competing: Taking a firm, assertive stance to win your position, typically used for quick or emergency decisions

Avoiding: Sidestepping the issue, postponing the discussion, or withdrawing from the situation entirely

What type of Friendships are you interested in?

Close / Inner Circle Friends: Trusted confidants for deep conversations, emotional support, and venting

Casual Friends / Acquaintances: Low-pressure connections for light-hearted fun and occasional hangouts

Text / Virtual Pen Pals: People who primarily connect via messages, memes, or online

When are you available to Hang Out?

Weekdays

Weekday Evenings

Weekend Days

Weekend Evenings

How do you like to spend your free time?

Arts & Crafts: Painting, drawing, writing, pottery, knitting, photography

Sports & Fitness: team sports, running, hiking, biking, skiing, rock climbing, yoga, weightlifting, fitness classes

Gaming: Board games, cards, mahjong, chess, trivia nights, video gaming

Food & Culinary: Cooking, baking, mixology, gardening

Music & Entertainment: Going to movies, concerts, festivals, clubs

Travel & Outdoors: Camping, birdwatching, hunting, fishing, exploring new places

Learning and Tinkering: Reading (with or without book clubs), visiting museums and historical sites, programming, car or pc building

Volunteering: Charity work, social or political activism

How do you prefer to communicate with others?

Phone

Videocall

Text

Social Media (dm, snapchat, messenger)

What is your Social Battery Capacity?

Very low: I need significant alone time to recover after any social interaction

Low: I have a few hours of social energy before I need to retreat and recharge

Moderate: I can handle most social situations but need breaks or downtime

High: I enjoy frequent socializing and usually feel energized by it

Very high: I thrive in constant social environments and rarely get drained

Where do you like to spend your Social Energy?

One-on-One: Deep, intimate conversations (e.g., coffee dates, phone calls)

Small Groups: Intimate gatherings (e.g., a family dinner or board game night)

Structured Activities: Shared experiences rather than open-ended socializing (e.g., sports, classes, book clubs)

Large Gatherings: High-energy crowds (e.g., parties, networking events, concerts)

Digital/Virtual: Low-pressure connections (e.g., group chats, video calls)

When engaging in social activities, I'm more of a person who likes to be...

Planful about activities

Spontaneous about activities

What Role do you typically have in friendships?

The caretaker/listener

The planner/organizer

The entertainer

The quiet tag-along

What is the Pace at which you build friendships?

Very Fast: I open up quickly and form strong connections almost immediately upon meeting someone

Moderate: I build friendships at a steady, average pace, getting to know someone over several weeks or months

Slow: It takes a long time for me to trust people and feel truly comfortable, often spanning several months

Very Slow / Guarded: I am highly selective and take a long time to let people into my inner circle

Is there anything else you would like us to know about you?

Email